Monday, May 4, 2009

Miss California, protecting the real kind of marriage - the opposite kind

Miss California. We haven't blogged about her at Female Impersonator, but I think many of you might have heard about Carrie Prejean's answer to a question from Perez Hilton at the Miss USA pageant on April 19.

From Telegreaph:
"We live in a land where you can choose same-sex marriage or opposite marriage," Miss Prejean said. "And you know what, I think in my country, in my family, I think that I believe that a marriage should be between a man and a woman. No offence to anybody out there, but that's how I was raised."
Prejean came in first runner up, and it is believed that her answer may have cost her the title at that pageant.

Well, she couldn't stop there just believing that same-sex couples don't deserve to marry. Now she's in Washington D.C., working to launch a campaign opposing same-sex marriage.

Carrie Prejean told NBC's "Today" show Thursday that she'll be working with the National Organization for Marriage to "protect traditional marriages."

The 21-year-old says that marriage is "something that is very dear to my heart" and she's in Washington to help save it.
For more on this topic, read here, here.

13 comments:

Tasha said...

Not to mention the multitude of problems with the pageant itself.

Amelia said...

Nope, didn't even go there. But if you would like to try that, feel free (absolutely no pressure, of course).

Mike said...

Same-sex couples can marry if they want...just not each other. Also, what's your feminist view of a guy calling a girl a "dumb bitch"? Does that fall in line with your feminist ideals?

Amelia said...

Same-sex couples cannot marry. You are suggesting that they should be satisfied with the opportunity to marry someone of the opposite sex even though you clearly label them as same-sex couples. How nice of you to disregard their identities and claim that because they can have marriage your heterosexual way, they should be satisfied.

And Perez Hilton was wrong for calling her a dumb bitch. That's messed up. But I do have a problem with Miss California trying to legislate her beliefs. It's perfectly fine for her to believe that same-sex marriage isn't right, but the fact that she is pushing to make it legislation is problematic.

And because that is not pertinent to the original post, that is all I will be saying about that. Thanks.

Amelia said...

Excuse me, I made a huge typo. In my last comment I said, "Same-sex couples cannot marry" when it would have been much more accurate to say it is not as easy for same-sex couples to marry due to marriage only being available to them in a few locales.

Anonymous said...

But I do have a problem with Miss California trying to legislate her beliefs. It's perfectly fine for her to believe that same-sex marriage isn't right, but the fact that she is pushing to make it legislation is problematic.By that same token, one could tell feminists: "It's perfectly fine for you to believe same-sex marriage is right, but the fact that you're pushing to make it legislation is problematic."

Amelia said...

Difference: People who support same-sex marriage are not trying to deny anyone else the right to do as they please.

Advocates against same-sex marriage are actively seeking to limit the choices people can have. Not cool.

If you're going to legislate something, it should be beneficial to the greatest amount of people possible, which is not the case for those opposed to same-sex marriage.

Anonymous said...
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Amelia said...

Wow, Anonymous. Just wow.

If I wasn't at college working hard to get a good education, I would take time to respond to that.

But no more comments along those lines will be published.

Thanks.

Amelia said...

Actually, anonymous, I deleted your comment because I think I made a bad choice by letting it through, since you basically equated same-sex marriage with murder/rape as things that should be legislated against.

Can't believe I let that through. That's intolerable.

lindsay said...

By that same token, one could tell feminists: "It's perfectly fine for you to believe same-sex marriage is right, but the fact that you're pushing to make it legislation is problematic."Amelia's right - that's different because we're not trying to legislate a limiting of rights, which for a lot of same-sex marriage opponents, is based largely on religious grounds. It's discrimination to tell one group of people they can't do a certain thing which is offered to the rest of society based on sexual orientation.

Anonymous said...

Marriage, much like a driver's license, isn't a "right".

It's a privilege. That's kinda why you have to be licensed to do it.

Amelia said...

And I think it is not a privilege that should be bestowed based on something like sexuality. One's worth cannot be judged based on sexuality, so why only allow people with a certain kind have this privilege?